Curated Connections for International Singles
Based in Berlin, serving Europe
Alto Matchmaking was created for those who believe that love should be intentional, meaningful, and built on shared values — not just another swipe on a screen.
Modern dating apps have made it easier than ever to meet people, but they often reduce connections to filters and algorithms, leaving singles feeling frustrated, disconnected, and exhausted by the process. For those navigating cross-cultural relationships, the challenges can be even greater — misaligned expectations, different communication styles, and the difficulty of finding someone who truly understands your international perspective.
Founded by Canadian expat Alysia Tofflemire, Germany’s first certified matchmaker, Alto Matchmaking offers a highly personalised and culturally aware approach to dating. We specialise in working with globally-minded professionals who value deep connection, shared values, and relationships that embrace both common ground and cultural differences.
Love isn’t an algorithm, it’s about understanding, connection, and finding someone who sees the world the way you do.
How our matchmaking works
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Every great connection begins with a conversation. Fill out our confidential matchmaking application to help us understand your values, relationship goals, and what you’re looking for in a partner.
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During your free 30-minute consultation, we’ll discuss your cultural and personal values, relationship goals, past experiences, and what makes a great match for you. This is your opportunity to learn about our process and see if we’re the right fit.
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Once you’ve joined our exclusive matchmaking network, we begin a highly personalised, cross-cultural search for your ideal match. Unlike dating apps, our certified matchmakers carefully hand-select introductions based on shared values, lifestyle alignment, and long-term compatibility — ensuring that each match is meaningful, intentional, and suited to your relationship vision.
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When we find a match that aligns with your preferences, we personally introduce you in a way that is comfortable for everyone. Our goal is to facilitate genuine, exciting connections. After each introduction, we gather feedback to refine your journey and ensure the best possible experience.
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Your journey doesn’t stop at introductions. We provide ongoing support, dating strategies, and access to our exclusive singles events (currently only available in Berlin) — helping you build confidence and navigate dating successfully.
Are you ready to meet someone truly special? Take the first step towards meaningful connections today!
Services we offer
Personalised introductions for discerning international singles
Let us find your perfect match through our exclusive and discreet hand-selected process. Enjoy a free 30-minute consultation to see if our service is right for you.
Expert coaching to improve your dating success
Book a 60-minute private session with a certified matchmaker to refine your approach, gain confidence, and get personalised advice tailored to your dating journey.
Stand out & attract better matches on dating apps
We optimize your profile with expert bio writing, strategic prompt responses, and an optional professional photo shoot to ensure you make the best first impression.
Curated events coming to Berlin soon…
Book a consultation
Experience matchmaking that goes beyond the ordinary. Book your complimentary 30-minute consultation with us and discover our services. What awaits you is a personalised, thoughtful approach to dating — designed by a certified matchmaker to connect you with like-minded individuals who align with your values and relationship goals.
Our Company Ethos
We are dedicated to helping singles cultivate genuine, lasting connections through expert guidance and a deep understanding of cultural dynamics.
We envision a world where finding love is intentional, personal, and deeply aligned with individual values. By offering a bespoke, human-centred approach, we create meaningful connections that transcend borders and modern dating norms.
Contact Us
For general enquiries, collaborations, or venue partnerships, feel free to reach out via the contact form. If you're looking to explore matchmaking services, please book a complimentary consultation here.