Alto Matchmaking is a boutique matchmaking service based in Berlin, designed for globally-minded singles seeking genuine, long-term relationships.

We go beyond dating apps and surface-level attraction, focusing on values, lifestyle compatibility, and cultural understanding to create meaningful connections. Our cross-cultural approach is ideal for those who appreciate diversity in relationships and want a more intentional, high-touch alternative to modern dating.

Our services include bespoke matchmaking, dating app profile makeovers, curated events, and personalised dating strategy sessions, all carefully designed to provide a healthy and intentional dating experience.

Unlike dating apps, our approach is highly personalised, discreet, and human-centred. We take the time to understand your values, background, preferences, and relationship goals before introducing you to carefully selected matches.

Matchmaking is for intentional, relationship-focused individuals who value quality over quantity in their dating life. If you’re someone who:

✔ Is tired of swiping, ghosting, and endless small talk on apps
✔ Prefers a curated, private, and discreet approach to dating
✔ Seeks a partner who shares your values, lifestyle, and cultural perspective
✔ Has a busy professional life and wants to outsource the search for love
✔ Has taken time away from dating and is looking for support in navigating the journey
✔ Is an expat or internationally-minded individual and finds traditional dating in Europe challenging

… then matchmaking might be the perfect solution for you.

Alto Matchmaking serves expats, multicultural professionals, and individuals who are ready for a meaningful connection — not just another match. Our service is designed for those who believe that love should be intentional, deeply aligned, and rooted in shared values.

If you’re ready to explore a different way of dating, schedule a free consultation to discuss your vision.

Our process starts with an in-depth consultation with a professional certified matchmaker to understand your personality, values, preferences, culture, and relationship goals. We then carefully select and introduce you to matches from our database who align with your vision for a meaningful connection, or search discreetly for matches through our extensive network of global certified matchmakers.

The number of introductions depends on your selected package and the availability of suitable matches. Our focus is on quality over quantity, and we encourage our clients to approach their experience with this in mind.

Feedback is a crucial part of our process. If a match doesn’t feel right, we’ll use your feedback to refine our search and ensure future matches are better aligned. We’ll also provide constructive feedback to your introduction at your discretion.

No. Unlike dating apps, your profile and photos are not publicly available. Matches are introduced personally and thoughtfully, and you always have the right to choose before we share any of your data with a potential match.

Matchmaking is a highly personalised and bespoke service, tailored to the unique needs and preferences of each client. Unlike dating apps, our process is hands-on, discreet, and designed for serious, relationship-focused individuals who value quality over quantity.

Our pricing reflects this curated, highly selective process, exclusive access to our private database, a concierge-style dating experience, and expert guidance and support.

Since every client’s needs are different, we offer tailored matchmaking packages that align with your specific preferences and relationship goals. To discuss the best option for you, we invite you to book a complimentary consultation where we can explore what you're looking for and how we can support you in finding the right match.

We offer several other services for those who do not yet feel ready to commit to our bespoke modern matchmaking process. Visit our Services page for more information.